We have hospital bills from when #3 found out that Legos are non-digestible, and now our master bath shower is causing rain in our classroom. Two strikes and our financial reserves are depleted. When the Fun Fund is empty, the Computer Guy and I stay home. It's the reality of living within our means.
Instead of whisking my sweetheart away to Carmel-by-the-Sea in California and spending four days of quiet rest, we will be showering in the children's bathroom and hiring someone to redo the plaster on the ceiling downstairs. I'll admit to shedding a few tears of disappointment over the ruin of all my plans, but am also grateful that I did not choose to take the discount afforded by pre-paying our hotel.
On the up-side, I've discovered what a treat the children's bathroom is. It is bright and airy with a large skylight and cheerful walls. It feels like taking a shower at the beach, and I love the beach.
This whole experience has me rethinking my own decorating decisions with the master bath. I loved the oyster gray walls because I thought the plainness of them would be soothing, instead it is boring and plain. I'm now pondering color schemes and design fixes. If you can't go somewhere for a change of scenery, then change the scenery around you.
That's our romantic vacation, a $20 bucket of paint and maybe a new shower curtain. I'm trying to shrug it off and tell myself that the 15th anniversary is more of a honeymoon year anyway. Who wants to take a romantic trip for their 14th anyway?
4 comments:
Oh bad words! I'm so sorry. Life always throws something in the way. HUGS
I'm really sad for you. Even if you're trying to be okay with it. You'll get that honeymoon, and it'll be even better than you thought.
I'm still just trying to celebrate my 10th, and I'm now up to year #13...also pinning my hopes on the 15th. So we're twins again!
So sorry things aren't working out as you'd planned...God's laughing, I bet, and planning something you'd never have imagined! :)
xoxo
Our 15th is April 1. We don't have any plans, and won't likely make any, either. Can't afford it, lol. Trying to reduce the debt load is about the extent of it. Yay. Woohoo. Whoopeeee.
LOL
Shoot, Valentine's Day is already going to be a bust. LOL. Replacing a well pump will do that for you...
Oh--Remind me the next time I visit, and I'll help you think of colors and such!
;-)
How are the eggs, btw?
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